oh, god, yeah. The polite fiction that one gets to "come out" and have a big day and then everyone in the universe updates their little notebooks and you're good--it's such an alluring fantasy, and so far from the actual truth of the matter.
Hmm. Now I'm wondering if it's a myth imposed on us by people who want a simple narrative to fit their simple world view.
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on 2018-11-27 02:02 am (UTC)oh, god, yeah. The polite fiction that one gets to "come out" and have a big day and then everyone in the universe updates their little notebooks and you're good--it's such an alluring fantasy, and so far from the actual truth of the matter.
Hmm. Now I'm wondering if it's a myth imposed on us by people who want a simple narrative to fit their simple world view.