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I had a rough night and ran around less than earlier this week, but I did take a couple of pictures in the cold late afternoon.

We hoped for something more. )

Not having dreamed memorably for months, I was amused that last night I was apparently trying to compose a journal post describing a pre-dawn view of the river which presented itself as the Charles, although in waking life it is not crossed with any rope bridges that I know about, nor have I ever seen a market running down its banks to the water. Then I was distracted by discovering the existence of living root bridges. I had never seen anything like them in a non-secondary world. I love that they are not a historical technology.

Hype Burnout

May. 8th, 2026 11:09 am
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Rogan: while chatting with Mori, we realized that while we aren’t really good at what most people call fandom, when we’re into something, we STAY into it, often for five years or more. Read more... )

Doubling Up on Ozempic

May. 8th, 2026 10:13 am
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It's been almost a month now since I started taking Ozempic, a GLP-1/Semaglutide medication. I had a followup appointment with my GP yesterday. She's stepping me up to the next higher dose. It's double what I've been taking the past month.

Going in to the appointment I wasn't sure if the doc would want me to continue the previous dosage or step up to the next level. In favor of "continue" was that I was I've been observing good improvements on the starter dose. Some people see little or no change on it, but I've already seen a 15% improvement in my blood glucose levels and I've lost 9 pounds (in a month). Plus, I've had only mild undesirable side effects.

These results had me thinking, "Perhaps I should go another month at the same level and see if there are further improvements before increasing the dose."

But the doc's thinking was, "These are great results, let's double your medication and see what happens!" 😳

Okay, it sounds a bit cavalier when I phrase it that way. A point in favor of "This is normal" is that the starter dose is meant to be just that; a starter dose. The next level up is considered the therapeutic dose. And for people of my body mass the next level beyond that, 4x the starter dose, is where we usually land. I guess I'm just unusual— in a good way, like right end of the bell curve unusual—for seeing improvements on the most minimal dose.

I've got to admit, I'm nervous about doubling up. Double up to get double the benefit? Sure, sign me up! But double (or worse) the undesirable side effects? Ehhh... I'd rather go slow-and-gentle if that works. We'll see what happens within the next week as I switch the higher dose.

Out in space, coast to coast

May. 7th, 2026 11:41 pm
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[personal profile] sovay
Leaving the jewelry store this afternoon with a couple of options for repairing the clasp on my necklace which has finally broken down beyond my abilities with needle-nose pliers, I got back into the car just in time to catch an interview with a geophysicist that not only tipped me off to the 1859 Carrington Event which sounds like the science fiction of its day with its spark-throwing wireless sets and tropically lapped auroras and telegraphers communicating through atmospheric influence alone, it introduced me to the Pangaean block of the Piedmont Resistor which seems to lie beneath most of the Eastern Seaboard, just one more piece of deep—two hundred million years down to the mantle—strangeness underfoot. I may never have heard of the United States Magnetotelluric Array and I understand its utility to the fragile electrical grids we have made to stand between the crochets of solar flares and the conductivity of the earth, but in a country that preserved any care for knowledge its map of melted, sutured, fractured time would be its own payoff. I love how much is banked and shifting beneath the surfaces we interact with, from earth and sea to the structures of the universe. I have missed so many meteor showers this year.

Where Do Kids Learn Basic Finance?

May. 7th, 2026 06:08 pm
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A topic I see pop up regularly in online discussions is Who should be teaching kids basic finance? Often this appears as jeering or hand-wringing about adult children who are now in their 20s and are clueless about things like balancing their debit accounts and not way overspending on credit cards. This week I even saw a news article about a young woman who is suing her parents for not teaching her adequately about basic finance. It seems she's deep in debt and has gotten the (bad) idea that suing mom & dad is the way out of it.

Often this issue is framed as "Schools need to teach kid basic finance". I'm not sure that putting it on schools is the right answer. It's one of those things, like brushing your teeth and tying shoe laces, that really needs to start at home. Schools are pretty overloaded right now just with the academics they need to teach. Plus, my own experience with school trying to teach household budgeting was pretty ridiculous. The lesson taught us to buy the cheapest stereo or we'd go broke.

Not that my own parents were great teachers of household finance, either. I mean, I learned some important basics. I learned that money was limited and credit cards had to be paid... eventually. And I learned thriftiness vis-a-vis making things last... even to the point of ridiculousness. But my parents never made a budget or stuck to one. They made spending decisions always on a case-by-case basis that basically boiled down to, "Is Dad in a good mood right now?" And the truth was they were deep in credit card debt because they were overspending their income for years.

Ultimately the lack of teaching or modeling on basic finance didn't hold me back too much. I'm a smart enough person that I figured it out on my own. The real basics like "Money doesn't just appear" and "You need to pay for it now... or add interest paying for it later" were intuitively obvious. Balancing a checkbook was just basic arithmetic. More advanced knowledge like how to invest savings I developed over time through my own constant learning.

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I don't want to make any claims for stamina in case tomorrow when I have an appointment I can't leave the house, but for months it has reliably exhausted me to walk around my own neighborhood and after two days out and about I did spend most of this one curled up, but I also left the house in the midafternoon to acquire a plate of baba dip from Noor because I was jonesing for eggplant and later walked back out on a fish-oriented supermarket run in the thickening rain. I stayed an extra hour at my desk because Hestia was in full Llyan mode, swattily objecting when I ceased from petting her as she purred like a turbine underneath the mermaid lamp. The evening's bedmaking was similarly delayed by her commandeering of the clean laundry with her precise and possessively kneading small paws. It does feel like a change that I am not utterly wiped out by household chores. Now if my brain would just decide to rejoin the party. In that vague direction, I am continuing to enjoy Apple TV's Widow's Bay (2026–) which delighted me beyond measure this week not even by featuring a sea hag who explodes when spear-gunned into tide-flat brine—I treasured a Magic card along those lines—but by having shot a scene at Half Moon Beach in Gloucester. I recognized it from its boulders of Cape Ann granite: I have climbed over their tectonic jumble and dozed on them and been photographed on them by [personal profile] spatch, the sticky basement rock of my local microcontinent. I am not used to fictitious islands confected out of coasts I know. It makes me want to visit them. In the meantime I read about the doused and sunken chain of the New England Seamounts.
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I had reason to dig up and link to this post while chatting with new-friend Alexander. They then said nice things about me doing things full and colourful even when my brain is being shit and I said NO STOP RUDE because I am good at making friends. Luckily they also speak internet, so they made me this meme in return:

Personal Growth Meme

And the thing it's making me think of most, irritatingly, is therapy a couple weeks ago and talking about the ways things aren't working and how I worry my brain was better n years ago, it feels like when I reread all these old posts I was doing so much better mentally.

Except of course in my love life, because like, I was way more struggling with jealousy and security and my role in 2019 and I really haven't had emo about that like that....well, since 2020, probably. Maybe 2021? It's not like my relationships are emo-free, just that like.

And like, okay, I'm worse at my job this year than I have been some years, but I'm also much more experienced and steady in my job just in general. And I've gotten a lot better at the union work side of it, and being loud there. And somewhat better at the comrade-not-cop side of working with the students (gods I love being better able to make relationships with the students, it feels so good.)

And man, one of the things I was rereading recently was all the wordsfile from when I ran Scottish Pinewoods in 2020, which was not *quite* the height of me feeling disconnected from the RSCDS but it was maybe the really sharp start of it, the part where it was really beginning to hit me how much my hobby didn't love me. And wow, all the work I have put into making my own dance class that I can have fun with and drag other people into and hopefully be a good time...that's really good work I've done, that's consistently good work, I'm super proud of that work.

Also like now I am learning how to knit and somehow that's a thing where I can force myself to just say the vulnerable words about it and not just lock up all the imposter-syndrome and rejection-sensitive-dysphoria deep in my heart where no one can see it, and so I've had some really lovely and thoughtful conversations with people who are *much* better at this thing where they just straight up explain the things kindly and happily and don't at all make me feel dumb for it.

And then there's the thing that happened recently, where I was chatting with someone about how I'm not relationship 101 material, that the whole polyamorous-kinky-genderqueer-HSV1+-ADHDnightmarechild thing should really not be your first serious relationship. Those are the parts I put in, the reasons. Long time readers might observe that there's something missing that you might expect from the list of why it's complicated to date me, and it's not that I'm _over_ being sexually abused as a seventeen year old by a man the same age I am now, you never get like, _over_ that, but I have put in enough work to make it a *lot* less relevant to my day-to-day.

...huh.

Okay. Fine.

Maybe I am allowed to accept a compliment on my personal growth once in a while. Don't you dare get all uppity and expect it'll work every time! I can still be crazy as sin, don't you worry!

But it's nice to be able to find evidence that I am growing. It's all I ever wanted. I hope you're growing too. The opposite is stagnation, you deserve better than that. So do I.

~Sor
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Hugos Invitational Opinion Post

May. 6th, 2026 07:20 am
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Hello! Do you have opinions on this year's Hugo nominees? I would enjoy hearing them -- not for any reason other than the sheer pleasure of thinking about books. Comment freely with your opinions, predictions, and recommendations.

The Backstory

[personal profile] sabotabby got me hooked on the Ancillary Review of Books' podcast A Meal of Thorns via her post on the MoT episode about Ready Player One, and I've been traipsing through the back catalogue.

Last year, host Jake Casella Brookins and frequent guest Roseanna Pendlebury hashed through the Hugo short lists book by book in great toothy detail. The episode was a sublime listening experience as I wandered through the wooded trails around Pkols / Mount Doug a few weeks ago, mostly because I agreed with almost everything they said. (At least about the books I'd read.)

(Last year I happened to do pretty well on Hugo reading. Without trying very hard, I read half the books -- 3/6 novels and 3/6 novellas. This year, not so much -- I've only read Amal El-Mohtar's novella The River Has Roots.)

(NB El-Mohtar's episode of MoT on The Traitor Baru Cormorant is also excellent.)

On precedent, I've been eagerly looking forward to the MoT Hugos episode this year, but so far they don't seem to have one planned.

Hence my rough approximation. Let me interview you about the Hugo noms you read and your takes thereon.

I guess I'll go first:

I liked The River Has Roots a lot. I'm shocked to discover it's El-Mohtar's first solo long-form fiction -- her voice has, to my ear, such assurance, both here and in This is How You Lose the Time War. She knows what she wants to do with this story and she does it, piece by piece. For such a small book, the story feels spacious. It's economical but doesn't feel rushed or compressed to me. I would have liked to know a little more about how she was imagining the phenomenon of grammar. I enjoyed the chicken.

Now you! (If you want.) -- Any Hugo short lister is fair game, whether I have read it or not.

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Today Hawk and I ate lunch at Kirk's Steakburgers in Santa Clara.

We got the idea for going to Kirk's when we were chatting with a neighbor at the pool a few days ago. The topic was, "Silicon Valley used to have great restaurants, of all varieties, but now so many of the classics are gone and they're replaced with boring, cookie-cutter pap." Within that one of our laments was, "Where even would you tell someone, 'When you're in Silicon Valley you totally have to try X for Y.'" It used to be, for any cuisine Y, you could name at least two restaurants X, that served fantastic examples of it.

As we were debating different values of X and Y, we agreed when Y = burgers, X = Clarke's and Kirk's. Well, Clarke's in Mountain View closed up several years ago after decades in business. And Kirk's in Cupertino closed up probably over 20 years ago now.

"Oh, but there's still the Kirk's in Palo Alto," Hawk objected.

"Yes, though it moved several years ago," our neighbor Mike pointed out.

That got me looking at a map. And while the old Cupertino location closed years ago and Palo Alto's did move partway across town, there's a new Kirk's Steakburgers in Santa Clara. That's the one we visited today.

New take on an old place: Kirk's Steakburgers in Santa Clara (May 2026)

The Santa Clara Kirk's is in a small shopping center adjacent the SCU campus. It's in a weird location that I don't think many people would ever find by accident. I mean, either you find it via an app search, or you're an SCU student and you walk by it because it's across the street from one of the main dorms.

Because of that I figured it'd be a popular lunch spot for students when we swung by around 12:15pm on a weekday. The outdoor patio was nearly full... but not with students. The clientele at Kirk's were almost exclusively white men aged 50+. Probably because it's now a "Beer Bar", Hawk quipped.

We ordered inside and then found seats out on the patio where music that sounded like the Radio Top 30 from 1984 blasted over the loudspeakers. So apropos to the clientele!

Burger and rings at Kirk's Steakburgers in Santa Clara (May 2026)

The menu isn't too far off from what I remember at Kirk's Steakburgers back in the day. Though, honestly, that was 25+ years ago now! The basic Kirkburgers are there, along with several variations, plus a steak sandwich, a Philly, and a few other things. And there are also about a dozen beers on tap... though today I stuck with a Coke Zero since it's lunchtime.

Between us we ordered two burgers, one dish of onion rings, and one soda. The total came out to about $43. That definitely isn't like "back in the day"! (Frustratingly it's not even like 6 years ago.)

The food was hit-or-miss this visit. Both burgers delivered were what we ordered, including Hawk's with custom toppings, but while hers was cooked to a delicious looking medium mine was badly overcooked. I feel like that wouldn't have happened back in the day. Kirk's was a classic locally because their cooks cared about stuff like "Is the burger grilled properly?"  I probably should have sent mine back and asked for it to be remade but I didn't care to wait.

To the green field by the sea

May. 5th, 2026 09:48 pm
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[personal profile] sovay
Counting by months, [personal profile] rushthatspeaks and I have been together for fifteen and a half years and married for five and a half and missed any formal celebration of our last anniversary because I was on my way to a hospitalization and so when we found ourselves this afternoon at Castle Island where an absurdly stiff breeze was scooting parasailers like hi-vis velella all over Pleasure Bay, the most natural thing when we tired of walking a wind tunnel around the faience-glinting waves was to pursue a meal on the brick-backed patio of our traditional anniversary restaurant, South Boston's ten-year-old Venetian-style bacaro SRV. We found street parking right around the corner. We ordered a smattering of cicchetti—the never-bettered polpette in their velvet of red sauce, the squid-black crostini topped with salt tufts of baccalà, a translucent dab of quince atop a sweetly plush mouthful of ricotta and salumi, an astonishing smear of uni and oyster butter sharpened with mignonette, plus a kitchen gift of lightly crisped eggplant—and a lambent scallop crudo dressed like the jeweled sea with tiny cubes of astringent kiwi and creamy pistachio and torn fresh mint, served on a shell I would have kept if it had come from a beach and not a restaurant I wanted to let me back through its doors ever again. Even the foccacia was bouncy, salt-skinned, assertive enough to eat even without wiping out the bright tomato sauce left over from the eggplant. My amaro mocktail was as darkly herbal as if it could have gotten me high and Rush-That-Speaks' Salt of the Earth was a tongue-spinning concoction of mezcal, fennel, and absinthe that should not have been able to taste so much like green brine. We wrote them an appreciative note and promised to return before autumn, declining their non-negligible roster of desserts in favor of checking out Uncommon Ice Cream up the street, which had not existed the last time we ate at SRV. Rush got the strawberry which really meant its cinnamon toast crunch swirl and I had the savorily flecked rosemary honeycomb. It had been actual ages since I just walked into a restaurant for an affordably luxurious meal with someone I loved, as in the pre-glacial world I could inhabit more or less safely. The two-hour free space on Mass. Ave. was just a present from the parking gods.

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Monday Hawk and I visited our friend, David, who lives in San Francisco. His condo is a short walk from the Caltrain terminal at 4th & King, so taking the train is a almost a no-brainer for us. Almost. Tickets are $8.50 each way to SF, so a roundtrip for the both of us is $34 total. That's not cheap money. Though if we drove we'd spend more than half of that on the gas alone. Then there's the cost to park, plus the non-dollar cost of having to drive vs. relaxing on the train. We took the train.

Boarding the train to San Francisco in Sunnyvale (May 2026)

Before we headed out the door we rummaged through our bags to find our Clipper cards. Those are the Bay Area transit system cards. We don't even need them anymore, strictly speaking.... Since our last ride on Caltrain a year ago the system has started accepting tag-on, tag-off with credit cards— like a number of other big-city transit systems around the world. We still have the old cards, though, and we wanted to use up the balances on them instead of stranding $10 or $20 each on cards we may never use again.

Speaking of commuter trains in other places around the world, it's refreshing how clean and quiet Caltrain is. Of course, the train cars are relatively new, so that helps. But the reason they're new is because the system went electric less than 2 years ago. The modern electric train cars are much quieter than the old diesel locomotive cars. They're also faster. Even on our midday trip north, where we had to take a local train that makes every stop on the line, it was only 64 minutes to SF.

Arriving in San Francisco on Caltrain (May 2026)

Once at the terminal in SF it's not far to our friend's place. You can see his building from the train platform. It's the tall one in the back.

We cross 4th Street from the train station in SF (May 2026)

Once outside the station we cross 4th Street. Here, in case you couldn't tell already from looking along King Street, you're in the city.

And it's not just sights that tell you you're in the city. This is San Francisco; you can smell it. In just walking one block along King Street I could smell urine, marijuana, human feces, and cigarette smoke at various spots. And this isn't even one of the bad parts of SF! 😨🤢🤮

Then we rounded the corner toward David's building, and....

The streets in SF positively REEKED, until we turned a corner and saw this sign (May 2026)

...Ah, a breath of fresh air!

This sign, while illustrated to be meant for dogs, seems also to be heeded by the humans who can read it. Or maybe it's the security guard patrolling on the other side of this little park who chases the vagrants away.

We had a good visit in San Francisco. As the time wound toward 5pm David seemed peopled-out so Hawk and I bid our goodbyes. We trekked back to the station and caught the 5:20 train head south. Since it's rush hour it was an express train— just 49 minutes back to Sunnyvale!

Also since it was rush hour the train was almost full leaving the terminal. By the time we reached Millbrae pretty much every seat in our train car was occupied. And it was still quiet! The rush hour crowd on this train is very subdued. Everyone's doing email, checking their socials, or just zoned out. The loudest sound was a person cell-yelling on their phone... whom I could hear from the next car!

Arriving back in Sunnyvale after a day in San Francisco (May 2026)

I joined the hush among the passengers by playing a mostly mindless game on my phone for a while before just relaxing and staring out the window. It's interesting to see all the familiar cities of the Peninsula from the perspective of the train.... Cities basically built their backs to the train for most of the past 60 years, so from these windows you see the back sides of warehouses, body shops, supply yards, etc.; all the low-rent parts of town. But every now and then, and increasingly so every year, you also see new development where cities have realized that "transit hub" is actually a real estate and commercial selling point, not a thing to hide away amid the poor people.


Giving up

May. 5th, 2026 10:47 pm
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I spent Sunday scrobbling in the dirt, because my friend Apollo had a backyard work party! Another friend there described it as "well, we're really being Tom Sawyered right now" and that was a both charming and accurate way to sum it up. Apollo said "wouldn't it be fun if y'all came over and helped me move rocks and dig up weeds and shovel mulch" and you know what? It super was!

Also there was a fire going pretty much the whole time, and when we pulled especially obnoxious bittersweet or tree-of-heaven out we could go and put it on the fire in triumph and that was very satisfying! After we worked, we ate snacks and sang sad folk songs --it wasn't intentionally, sad, just wound up that way-- and it was a really lovely afternoon all around!

But the thing that's really standing out, was somewhere in the middle of dealing with the tree-of-heaven, after we'd gotten some of the bigger root clusters out but still had plenty to go, I wound up spending like...ten or fifteen minutes just digging increasingly deep and pulling out the rocks from the old rock wall the roots appear to have grown through, and trying to get one of the remaining big pieces out. And I just couldn't do it. I made lots of progress, but the roots were still in there.

So I wandered to Apollo, ready to switch tasks, and said "I give up." "I'm proud of you!" they replied, and when I tried to tease about it, they continued "both for trying and for giving up". That felt. Honestly real good. It feels nice in the way I hope it feels nice when I thank people for saying no to me. It felt nice in a recognition that setting boundaries and taking care of yourself is good. It felt like a kindness, being told that not only was it okay to give up on a frustrating task that wasn't working out, but a point of pride.

I like having the friends I have.

~Sor
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2026 May Fan Poll

May. 5th, 2026 05:19 pm
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[personal profile] lb_lee
Hey everybody, it's that time again: time to vote for which stuff gets the LiberaPay/Patreon money this month!

As always, anyone can vote (please do!), but LiberaPay and Patreon patrons get double weight for their votes.  (Due to Patreon's porn purges, I really encourage you to use LiberaPay, if you get a choice.) If you want to see the blurbs for any of these works, those are here!  (You can also leave your requests there; requesting a story or essay is always free!) If you don't have a DW and so can't do the poll, that's okay; just leave your vote in the comments below; anon comments are turned on.

Which works gets the money, and thus posted this month?  YOU CHOOSE, readers!

Poll #34566 2026 May Fan Poll
This poll is closed.
Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 21


Did you toss LiberaPay/Patreon money my way last month?

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Yes (my votes count double)
6 (100.0%)

What writing gets posted this month?

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Infinity Smashed: Born Lucky
4 (19.0%)

Reverend Alpert: the Traveling Exorcist
3 (14.3%)

Henchwench for Hire (F/F supervillainy)
3 (14.3%)

Rutless (trans omegaverse porno)
2 (9.5%)

Kayfabe in the Coliseum (psuedo-Greco-Roman gladiator fights)
3 (14.3%)

Crazy Boys Join Forces (narrative autobio)
11 (52.4%)

The Golem Always Dies At The End (essay)
11 (52.4%)

What art/comic/zine gets posted this month?

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Cult Comix (doodle strips of Cultiples BS)
3 (15.0%)

Death Watch (bony lady comic)
7 (35.0%)

Protection (one-page dark side of protector duty)
3 (15.0%)

Thrown Away
3 (15.0%)

Fluff (Mori/Rawlin silliness)
8 (40.0%)

Possessions (text-only poetry zine of haunting incompetently)
7 (35.0%)

Dr. Frankenstein vs. the Queerborgs (book spine poetry)
7 (35.0%)

Hometown flavour

May. 5th, 2026 11:15 am
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One of the many charming moments about the like, 90 minutes I stood around post-dance in a little cluster of seven of us, sharing stories and chatting, was when Alexander and Willow, both here from Philly, said something lamenting the lack of Rita's in Massachusetts. "At some point we're going to go on an Adventure to visit the one currently open in like, Walpole" one of them said, and immediately I am grabbing Thrantar with one hand and Alexander with the other and near-shrieking "take us with you!"

The four of us then had to explain what on earth a Ritas is and why it matters so to the three New England natives. We almost managed? Maybe we'll let them join on our Adventure and then they can see what it's like.

~Sor
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Someone on twitter pointed out that the police murders of students at Jackson State was only 11 days after Kent State. Not exactly comparable - police, not national guard troops, other stuff going on, but can be held in the same part of one's mind. I didn't remember it. I am not sure I ever knew about it. Now I do, and you can too.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jackson_State_killings

Eating cereal, remembering the sky

May. 5th, 2026 12:03 am
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[personal profile] sovay
With great disgruntlement, Hestia submitted to the invasion of her sovereign space as I cleaned and restocked the pantry, disposing in the process of many of the shredded paper bags in which she had been pleased to nest and very unfairly folding the unshredded ones into the indispensable bag of bags, out of reach of the mighty paw of kitten. I have been so ill for so long that I have been barely cooking for myself and tired of it: nothing is superabundant, but groceries were included among the errands I spent my day running. The shelves tidily contain cornmeal and jam and tinned fish and soup. [personal profile] spatch organized his ramen. When I have finished cleaning the counters, I will be able to bake something. I just heard a train whistle blowing in the night, which always makes me think of Tom Waits' "Gun Street Girl" (1985). Someday I will eat a seaweed cheese.
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Good news: it seems it's the charging cable rather than the iPad that's dead. It charged fine on a couple of Steph's cables. Much cheaper to replace a cable.

Acquired a suit and a pair of shoes that will pass muster for "decent" at a distance, for under $500. I don't really expect to need a suit for any potential interviews in Vancouver, and my suitcase was pretty full, so I ended up leaving all that in Minneapolis. If I decide I want it I can bring my suit-board-thing next time.

The Mall of America is disconcerting in its scale, and at least on a Tuesday afternoon/evening in its emptiness.

I've also determined that I'd rather be wearing linen, and an open blazer rather than a suit. I'm quite fond of this look (a 'natural' linen double-breasted blazer and trousers, over a black polo with the collar over the blazer), but that's very much a "someday" kind of thing. File it away in the wishlist.

The intervew felt fine up until the end, when I mentioned that I'm currently in Van in the process of relocating to Minneapolis, and the social temperature of the room dropped about ten degrees. It's government (unclear whether it's state, municipal, or something weird in-between) so it'll be a couple of weeks before I hear anything regardless.

A week or two ago I applied for a tech-writer job at some engineering firm. On Tuesday I got an email of "if you actually want a tech-writing job and are not trying to use this to get an engineering job, please reply with three times when a phone interview would work for you." I did so, and watched as the first of the times passed with no response. Friday I got "we're overloaded with responses, we've added more times, if your specified times have passed please tell us some new ones." This fucking economy, man. They're supposedly calling me at tennish tomorrow, "but please allow 5-10 minutes in case the prior phone screen runs over." I will not get this job and I will count it another bullet dodged.

My plane is boarding soon, so I should go navigate the ridiculously sprawling Calgary airport to get to my gate. Home to my kitten this evening. That will be good.

Future Events: Boston Dyke March

May. 4th, 2026 06:12 pm
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We will be tabling with Boston Dyke March next month, on Friday June 5! Stay tuned and mark your calendars, for some unfathomable reason the queers are getting rowdy!

They're still dead (in Ohio)

May. 4th, 2026 08:02 am
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and many other years. For some reason I still fixate on that.
I am grateful that snipers haven't been sent to remove Guido Reichstadter* from the Frederick Douglass bridge but a point about Kent state was that the dead students weren't even protesting (or not all) - just walking across campus. It was like the Boston Massacre, in that the occupying troops were on edge and there had been what might be considered provocation (thanks, John Adams) but passersby were killed.


* https://www.wusa9.com/article/news/crime/person-climbs-frederick-douglass-memorial-bridge-top/65-30e5359e-9815-4d1b-a672-f932deaf6615

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