Always interesting to see the different ways we got trained as kids. I don't see "can I come over" (or a more tactful variant) as rude in the slightest and I'm totally baffled to hear that mom does. Guess I never said it in earshot of her. At any rate, we both seem to have done pretty well with our social lives.
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on 2012-09-19 12:17 pm (UTC)