FWIW, your mind is -incredibly- sexy (and I totally don't expect to have sex with it, even if I see it naked).
Nudity is complicated. I ended up going from more normal/sexualized attitudes towards nudity to my current, much more casual "find out what the most clothed comfortable point is and target that, don't find nudity, sans context, particularly sexual" approach in a fairly short period -- mostly by getting myself to go to the "classic" (nude) swimming area at Pennsic and going to a bunch of Baitcons (which also has nude bathing/hanging out at a nearby creek, or did the last time I went). But then, I've never been sexually abused (and certainly not in the ugly emotional abuse fashion you describe above).
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ninetydegrees
on 2012-08-24 07:23 pm (UTC)Nudity is complicated. I ended up going from more normal/sexualized attitudes towards nudity to my current, much more casual "find out what the most clothed comfortable point is and target that, don't find nudity, sans context, particularly sexual" approach in a fairly short period -- mostly by getting myself to go to the "classic" (nude) swimming area at Pennsic and going to a bunch of Baitcons (which also has nude bathing/hanging out at a nearby creek, or did the last time I went). But then, I've never been sexually abused (and certainly not in the ugly emotional abuse fashion you describe above).