Yeah...they're gone. Lost Thoughts. 'Cause see, if I didn't write them up then and there, it had to have been something that would have taken me a while to write up, what with me being kind of verbose sometimes. So I'll try to come up with some more I guess.
1) "Snog them thoroughly" - that's kind of sexual assault. 2) I agree with your initial theory wholeheartedly. One of the communities I'm in had a post asking people for the best pickup line they'd ever used/had used on them, and a lot of people in there said the best one was "Nice shoes. Wanna fuck?" So based on that, I think a lot of other people do too. 3) Instead of being worried that you're leading on someone who's interested in you by continuing to give those friendship privileges, you could always ask them point blank if they're interested in you. That'd clear up all that confusion right away, 'cause presumably after they tell you whether you are or not, they'll want to know whether you are or not. So no more mixed signals. (Of course this is all easy to say and hard to do.)
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ninetydegrees
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on 2009-01-24 01:13 am (UTC)1) "Snog them thoroughly" - that's kind of sexual assault.
2) I agree with your initial theory wholeheartedly. One of the communities I'm in had a post asking people for the best pickup line they'd ever used/had used on them, and a lot of people in there said the best one was "Nice shoes. Wanna fuck?" So based on that, I think a lot of other people do too.
3) Instead of being worried that you're leading on someone who's interested in you by continuing to give those friendship privileges, you could always ask them point blank if they're interested in you. That'd clear up all that confusion right away, 'cause presumably after they tell you whether you are or not, they'll want to know whether you are or not. So no more mixed signals. (Of course this is all easy to say and hard to do.)