I read your question before reading the essay, jfyi.
At first I thought the writer was female, but around "See, there's just so much more to my identity than who I like to fuck" I switched to thinking the writer was male, because if you're female and like fucking men, almost no one treats that as a major part of your identity.
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on 2011-12-08 02:55 pm (UTC)At first I thought the writer was female, but around "See, there's just so much more to my identity than who I like to fuck" I switched to thinking the writer was male, because if you're female and like fucking men, almost no one treats that as a major part of your identity.