You're being a little unclear here --is your problem that the ladies are pairing when there are men available? Because my general feeling there is tough shit towards the men. They will either dance together, or they won't get to dance. It gets into another layer of "why you're at the dance", plus additional gender drama. (Akin to the fact that women hug each other all the time, but men do not hug other men because that's weird)
My general opinion is that if I am dancing, and there are more than two people not dancing, I will not feel guilty or annoyed for them. They have their own reasons for not dancing with each other, and I'm unlikely to change that.
(If there's only one person left out, that's a different thing, and I may feel guilty. Butyeah)
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on 2009-10-20 04:53 pm (UTC)My general opinion is that if I am dancing, and there are more than two people not dancing, I will not feel guilty or annoyed for them. They have their own reasons for not dancing with each other, and I'm unlikely to change that.
(If there's only one person left out, that's a different thing, and I may feel guilty. Butyeah)
~Sor