Yeah, i know how that "normal" wish thing goes.. i craved it particularly keenly throughout my 12 year marriage to Charles because he was the very epitome of Not Normal but not necessarily in a good way.
i still only have outed myself to Safe people (and in real life that only includes my String Thing group; our fearless leader is in fact bisexual & has this as part of the desc of our meetup: "BGLT friendly (straight guys welcome too!)" ^_^).. my own family has no clue; even the kids' grandparents whom Charles outed W to without permission, jerk.
It's definitely a security thing.. a Wanting To Fit In Thing. Is probly why i cling to you lot so much because for the first time in my life, i have found people who not only not think less of me for who i am & what i represent, but also embrace some of those attributes as well! (i believe i have ranted to you before about the shiny smooth legs on the "Earthy/Hippy" women i have seen at Whole Foods & other such places :P)
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on 2009-06-04 01:07 pm (UTC)i still only have outed myself to Safe people (and in real life that only includes my String Thing group; our fearless leader is in fact bisexual & has this as part of the desc of our meetup: "BGLT friendly (straight guys welcome too!)" ^_^).. my own family has no clue; even the kids' grandparents whom Charles outed W to without permission, jerk.
It's definitely a security thing.. a Wanting To Fit In Thing. Is probly why i cling to you lot so much because for the first time in my life, i have found people who not only not think less of me for who i am & what i represent, but also embrace some of those attributes as well! (i believe i have ranted to you before about the shiny smooth legs on the "Earthy/Hippy" women i have seen at Whole Foods & other such places :P)
Loverly post, Sor! *hgugles*