What you put out there and what people take from it can be two very different things. You may not consciously be portraying yourself as sexual but then, I think most people in our society are not the cuddlers, huggers, snooglers you are so someone who sees that in you may take it as you being sexual even when you are not specifically meaning to be. I think we as a culture have somehow lost the idea of touch as a non-sexual expression of affection. Certainly I think it can be both but nowadays, it feels like touch is more often than not a precursor to something sexual in potentially charged situations.
Plus, actually I do think you are sexual even if you are not purposely so. Some of it is just the organism's way of being out there whether you, sorcy, are actually consciously in charge of what your body is doing (pheromones, etc.). My .02.
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ninetydegrees
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on 2007-12-05 02:08 pm (UTC)Plus, actually I do think you are sexual even if you are not purposely so. Some of it is just the organism's way of being out there whether you, sorcy, are actually consciously in charge of what your body is doing (pheromones, etc.). My .02.