Dear god yes, I have a friend who used to do that and it made me really uncomfortable. Possibly illogically, the fact that she's a woman did make me feel less uncomfortable than I would have otherwise though. Or maybe it wasn't that, but just that I felt she was trying to be funny, not make me uncomfortable. Or something. Actually that doesn't make it any better. Maybe it was the thought that people around us would have a different impression of what was going on (I can be very self concious like that).
I think I (used to?) get more than usually uncomfortable when women that didn't/don't know about me being bi got touchy feely with me. I'd always think "one day they'll find out and maybe they wouldn't have done that if they hadn't thought I was "safe" and they'll hate me, so I'm gonna sit awkwardly in the corner now"
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on 2010-08-16 05:33 am (UTC)I think I (used to?) get more than usually uncomfortable when women that didn't/don't know about me being bi got touchy feely with me. I'd always think "one day they'll find out and maybe they wouldn't have done that if they hadn't thought I was "safe" and they'll hate me, so I'm gonna sit awkwardly
in the corner now"