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*sigh* the human race continues to annoy me.
NTS: TW abusive ex, in the comments. <3, futureKat
Disclaimer: This is not meant to be an attack on anyone in specific, or even in general. This is just my general feelings on this topic.
Relationships:
YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVE ONE TO BE HAPPY!!!!!!
It seems that everyone and their brother who is NOT in a relationship, feels that they HAVE to be in one. This is NOT TRUE! Sure, it's nice to have that special someone in your life, but it's not essntial to your continued happiness. If the only way your happy is if you're in a devotion relationship with someone, THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU!!
And when I say devotion relationship, I mean most relationships where you have a boyfriend and/or a girlfriend. There is no love in those, especially in the ripe old age of what, 14? 15 or 16? maybe even *gasp* 17? I'm sorry, but you cannot have a true love relationship in high school. All that is there is devotion to the person, and lust. Lots, and lots of stupid-ass lust.
Sorry to shatter any of your dreams, but you have not found true love yet. You are a teenager. A stary-eyed dreamer who belives that you find true love with EVERY new relationship your in, and I'm sorry, but thats NOT SO. True Love is one of the rarest (or is that most rare?) things on the planet, and the chances of ANYONE finding it -especially this young- are a bazillion to one.
No one has to have a SO (Significant Other...I use this term a lot) to be happy. A truly happy person is one who can be entierly stable by themselves, one who can make themselves happy. These rare people, who know exactly who they are and where they stand, know that they don't need an SO, and you shouldn't feel you need one either!
Sure, it's always nice to have that special person, and if you can find someone you're happily devoted to, and them to you, great! However, don't expect it to last. A year, maybe two, but eventually, you're going to graduate (and don't even get me started on people dating people in other grades... *shudder*) and you will most likely go off to different collages, make new friends, and probably start up another one of those little devotion relationships.
Apologies for being terribly cynical and realistic about this. [sarcasm] I hate to have shattered your fragile psyches.[/sarcasm]
Yeah. PPMO, thats all.
~Sorceress/Kat
MOOP!
Original Tags: cloneconvo, sexuality, gendersex, tagged, relationships, rants
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therapywarning, rants,15!sor was a nightmare, gendersex, read-the-comments, relationships, cloneconvo, retrospective
Disclaimer: This is not meant to be an attack on anyone in specific, or even in general. This is just my general feelings on this topic.
Relationships:
YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVE ONE TO BE HAPPY!!!!!!
It seems that everyone and their brother who is NOT in a relationship, feels that they HAVE to be in one. This is NOT TRUE! Sure, it's nice to have that special someone in your life, but it's not essntial to your continued happiness. If the only way your happy is if you're in a devotion relationship with someone, THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU!!
And when I say devotion relationship, I mean most relationships where you have a boyfriend and/or a girlfriend. There is no love in those, especially in the ripe old age of what, 14? 15 or 16? maybe even *gasp* 17? I'm sorry, but you cannot have a true love relationship in high school. All that is there is devotion to the person, and lust. Lots, and lots of stupid-ass lust.
Sorry to shatter any of your dreams, but you have not found true love yet. You are a teenager. A stary-eyed dreamer who belives that you find true love with EVERY new relationship your in, and I'm sorry, but thats NOT SO. True Love is one of the rarest (or is that most rare?) things on the planet, and the chances of ANYONE finding it -especially this young- are a bazillion to one.
No one has to have a SO (Significant Other...I use this term a lot) to be happy. A truly happy person is one who can be entierly stable by themselves, one who can make themselves happy. These rare people, who know exactly who they are and where they stand, know that they don't need an SO, and you shouldn't feel you need one either!
Sure, it's always nice to have that special person, and if you can find someone you're happily devoted to, and them to you, great! However, don't expect it to last. A year, maybe two, but eventually, you're going to graduate (and don't even get me started on people dating people in other grades... *shudder*) and you will most likely go off to different collages, make new friends, and probably start up another one of those little devotion relationships.
Apologies for being terribly cynical and realistic about this. [sarcasm] I hate to have shattered your fragile psyches.[/sarcasm]
Yeah. PPMO, thats all.
~Sorceress/Kat
MOOP!
Original Tags: cloneconvo, sexuality, gendersex, tagged, relationships, rants
-or-
therapywarning, rants,15!sor was a nightmare, gendersex, read-the-comments, relationships, cloneconvo, retrospective