In which I am crass and discuss money

[sorcyress]

It was brought to my attention that I do not especially know how to budget¹.

That's mostly okay, in that I've been a dumb privileged white kid for the last bunch of years, and one of the infinite advantages of having parents willing to pay for college is that they pay for room and board too. Budgeting for me has exclusively thus far been "do I have enough money for that event I want to go to" and I can more or less afford that on babysitting.

But I'm going to join the real world somewhere in the next 3-6 months, and not only do I not have a great grasp on how much the world is going to cost, I don't think I have a particularly good grasp on what I'm going to be spending that money on. A friend mentioned that he was paying about a thousand a month, for everything except rent and utilities, and I certainly *think* I can keep my expenses under that number², but I don't know if I'm managing to account for everything I'll need to spend money on.

So that's what I'm really asking for: What things am I going to be spending money on that I don't necessarily realize I'll spend money on?

Sitting down and thinking about it, I know there's:

*Rent and utilities
*Groceries/eating out (which is a huge "I have no idea" since I've been living off my meal plan for three and a half years --I imagine I should be able to keep myself fed grocery-wise for a hundred a week, I think that's about what I've spent on the (very few) times when I've had to fend for myself.)
*Dance, which is non-negotiable. If I can afford it in September, I should _absolutely_ get a season pass for SCD, which changes the shape of how much dance costs per month.

(as an aside, that's one of the things I'm finding complicated about trying to write a budget for myself, in that "monthly expenses" is easier than dividing "expenses per semester" by three, or trying to work out how much a year-pass would cost and when I would need that money and such.)

*Transit, which I imagine is hugely variable. If I only ever took the T places, it would be a straight 60/month, but I also have a bike to repair and a future zipcar membership, and taxis and stuff. But on the flip side, if the bike is in good shape, and the weather is nice, I can spend maybe like fifteen dollars on the T and spend the rest of my necessary transit time riding my bike.
*Laundry, which becomes more important as I have to wear more professional clothing, since I don't have enough of said clothing, and therefore have to do laundry more often.
*Also, buying more clothing of the professional sort. I mean, I rock the thrift-store chic so hard, so I'd like to hope I wouldn't be spending too terribly much on this, but it's still a thing.
*Meds
*Other hospitaly/medical things, knock on wood. I don't think this counts as a monthly budget thing, so much as a "I should try to set aside a couple hundred(thousand?) dollars as soon as possible to be my "oh shit oh shit I just broke my leg" fund³.

And...what else? The last time I did anything like this it was in my seventh grade home ec class, where I think I was "renting" an apartment for 50 dollars a month, so it's not like I was exactly being taught accurate numbers for the real world so much as "here's how to balance your monies!"

The real world is hard, whine whine. But dammit, if I'm going to be an adult⁴, I might as well do it right, and not have to rely on other adults (read: my parents) for taking care of me.

Just rely on them for advice.

~Sor
MOOP!

1: I have gotten as far as "If there is money in my account I can buy things, if there is not, I can't" and seem to do okay with that, but, uh, yeah.

2: More importantly, doing some googling and finding out how much I will make as a teacher implies that (assuming I get a job), I should be making at least 24k a year, which gives me enough for rent/utilities and "everything else". Assuming that my combined rent+utilities is in the thousand dollars or less range, which I think is an okay guess considering the places I've been looking at with Ria and Lauren and Mason.

3: Although, assuming I broke my leg, I could just transfer my dance fund to medical. Gods forbid.

4: I think I've decided that I don't want to be an adult because adults are ridiculously dramatic, often uncommunicative, and generally immature. I'd like to be mature instead. It seems much easier.

Postscript: And yes, I am writing actual numbers for these in another file, in a "trying to inflate everything so I wind up with too much money rather than too little" sort of way. But I figured that would be too gauche even for me to post.

And not in the file yet, because I don't know what the shape of my life will be like yet, is the concept of long-distance travel in order to spend time with faraway friends and SOs. Which could be eighty dollars a month for train tickets, or 500plus for a cross-country plane ride. Plane tickets are definitely my most expensive regular expense.

Also not in the file is the general thought of "here are things I want" and taking steps to buy those things. One of the reasons I want to have some discretionary income is so that I can start scouting sales for expensive things I want/need, so that when they show up for a decent price, I can get them without stressing that I've just wrecked my budget for the month. See also, the fact that I think I want 3 TB of external storage --one for job^a, one for backup, and one for media.

a: If everything stayed the same, I don't think I would _ever_ fill a TB of stuff just of assignments and resources and grades and worksheets and lessons and everything teaching will require. But things keep taking up more and more space, and inevitably I'll be teaching Skype lessons with an uberboard or something, and each lesson will be a gig and a half or something.

Comments

[ms-hecubus.livejournal.com]

In my opinion $100 a week is a huge amount to allocate for food for one person. I feed our entire family, buy diapers, toiletries and cleaning supplies on $100 a week. Plus, when you're starting out spending that amount might not be realistic. If you have roommates to offset other costs you might be able to spend more, but I was using about $40 a week when I was single.

[kdsorceress.livejournal.com]

That's entirely plausible. I've almost never had a point where I was responsible for feeding myself and had access to buying groceries --I've either been at home, nomading it (at which point I don't generally have the space to store anything more than a couple things, so I eat a lot of quick food or eat out.), or been on the meal plan.

Roommates and I haven't even begun to discuss shared food versus personal food, and whether or not we'll have regular communal meals or how that'll work. I don't know, maybe I should write out a week's worth of groceries and spend an hour in the grocery store finding out how much that costs me.

You're also _really_ good at using coupons and sales, and otherwise getting a bargain for food and stuff. I'd like to be better, but a little is getting into the habit, and I just haven't gotten there yet.

~Sor

[ms-hecubus.livejournal.com]

Planning your meals around sales helps a lot, even if you don't use coupons. I didn't when I was single and often resorted to cheap frozen dinners. You save more cooking at home, of course, but I was often out and eating on the run so Banquet dinners it was.

You guys should talk about getting a membership to Costco or Sams. You can put two people on a Costco membership so you'd have to decide who would do the shopping. It will save you a bunch on paper products. With multiple adults in the household buying in bulk makes sense.

[kdsorceress.livejournal.com]

Oh man, that would be a boss idea, and I'm sad I forgot it!

I think my next post is going to have to be "what do we need to know for living in an apartment".

~Sor

[olszowka.livejournal.com]

You can get prices surprisingly close to Costco by going to Market Basket and buying their store brand. If you're on Red Line, it's reasonably convenient.