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Katarina Whimsy ([personal profile] sorcyress) wrote2009-11-22 10:37 pm

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Oy vey. Can I be done with every variation of "we need to talk" with everybody I've ever known, regardless of our platonicness and yeah.

yeah.

So let's make this into a meme! Silly or serious, drop me a comment telling me why WE need to talk.

~Sor
MOOP!

[identity profile] leiacat.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
Cuz we don't talk enough.

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Good reason. How's life?

~Sor

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[identity profile] skutchypup.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:52 am (UTC)(link)
We need to talk more because you are awesome and I don't see enough of you!:hugs:

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Man, what is *with* that? (Answer: I keep gallivanting off and being elsewhere)

But yeah. You're awesome too. *hugsback!*

~Sor
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[personal profile] marcmagus 2009-11-23 03:52 am (UTC)(link)
Didn't you do this a couple of weeks ago? ;)

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, and a couple of them are leftover from then. Sigh!

~Sor

[identity profile] joshuazelinsky.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
Well, I thought we needed to talk but now I think we just need to watch Middleman. So um, yeah.

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Middleman good. We probably do need to talk, but Middleman supersedes such things, pretty much always.

Also, the most recent xkcd made me think of you.

~Sor

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[identity profile] tacnukesoul.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:00 am (UTC)(link)
Ward, I'm worried about the Beaver.

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:44 pm (UTC)(link)
*does not make a dirty joke, does not make a dirty joke, does not make a dirty joke...*

~Sor

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[identity profile] mogwit.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
How about we just hang out instead? We can talk while we do. But Talking is not a requirement.

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I totally vote for hanging out!

Clearly you need to come to mom's New Years party. *nods sagely*

~Sor

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[identity profile] tirerim.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
Because I like talking to you. :-)

Our IM conversations have a tendency to not last very long, though, for some reason, so I suggest in person. :-)

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay!

I think part of the reason they don't last very long is because we're close enough that all the important and in depth and silly conversations happen in person. Or something.

~Sor

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[identity profile] rrainew.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:37 am (UTC)(link)
'cause we've never talked!

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Now that's a very good reason indeed!

So, how's you? How's the weather out in...Arizona? New Mexico? Where did you run away to?

~Sor

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[identity profile] drama-angel3189.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:51 am (UTC)(link)
Because My boyfriend may be a butt and I need someone to be my plus one?

And I love you!

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[identity profile] saberwing.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 05:29 am (UTC)(link)
because i need to discuss the definition (or lack there of) of polyamory.

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:32 pm (UTC)(link)
...Ohdeargod, you took the serious bit, well, seriously.

The definition of polyamory is "loving more than one person at once". There are roughly a thousand ways to have poly relationship(s) within that structure, and nothing is really right or wrong solong as everyone involved is on the same page, and communicating and such.

Unlike the oft-used "primary, secondary, etc" relationship ranking system, I divvy my relationships into a handful of different levels: Boyfriends1, who are people who I consider myself to be in a committed relationship with and who are able to be in a committed relationship with me, complications, who are anyone I've said "Will you be my 'it's complicated' on Facebook?" to and who I can't have a committed relationship with for whatever reason (including I'm just not that serious about them, or I don't believe they are able to give the time/social necessary to be that serious about me) and kissing friends, who are friends. That I kiss sometimes.

Generally, boyfriends are people who I love romantically, as can complications. Kissin' friends and some complications are just people who I want to bone.

More specific questions? And/or, e-mail me, and/or catch me on IM?

~Sor

1: Or girlfriends, but whatever.

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"commitment"

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[identity profile] jere7my.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 05:36 am (UTC)(link)
We need to talk because I am nosy, and want to know what everybody needs to talk to you about.

[identity profile] werewulf.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 11:48 am (UTC)(link)
*I* need to talk to her because it's a mom's prerogative. And besides, we're gonna have a longish drive at Thanksgiving and it would be awkward if we DIDN'T talk!

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We need to talk.

[identity profile] ferrisbunson.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 06:31 am (UTC)(link)
We need to talk Sor, because I need to tell you that you are awesome.

Re: We need to talk.

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Awww, *blushes* You are pretty awesome yourself, Matt! I approve most heartily of you.

~Sor

[identity profile] thorog.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 07:20 am (UTC)(link)
We need to talk because we haven't yet invented telepathy.

Also because I haven't actually talked to you in ages, what with being motivated at uni and busy after work.

[identity profile] thorog.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 07:35 am (UTC)(link)
Also, I've been cheating on you.

With a box of Ricies.

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[identity profile] mikethegirl.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 09:37 am (UTC)(link)
We need to talk because we've only talked once, I think, and that was at least a couple of years ago.

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my, though I'm not surprised. And you theoretically were/are going to my neck of the woods (where my neck of the woods is described as "America".

~Sor

[identity profile] whimmydiddle.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 01:40 pm (UTC)(link)
We need to talk to discuss the wonderfulness that is " The Once and Future King." You HAVE read that marked up copy I slaved over, no?

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:36 pm (UTC)(link)
It's the next book on the list after I read "Gold by Gemini" which I borrowed from my California clone.

And I will leave lots of hyper comments to you as I go through, I promise!

~Sor

[identity profile] chickenhat.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 01:43 pm (UTC)(link)
"Need" to talk? Nope. I'm good to go with casual gestures.

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)
*makes gestures at you!*

~Sor

[identity profile] silmaril.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:30 pm (UTC)(link)
We need to talk, Kat. I've tried to gnash my teeth and bear it, but those purple socks with those brown boots... I cannot take it any more.

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Butbutbut...[livejournal.com profile] whimmydiddle assured me that the purple socks were the height of fashion, and the boots are the only ones I've got suitable for the cold Boston winter!

~Sor

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[identity profile] nurrynur.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 03:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Because your lovemuffin is about to pop out of the oven and I want you to be there to take the first delicious blueberry flavored bite!


(Ahh, I think I just scared myself..)

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
.......

D:

I am not entirely sure what's going on, but I think it involves eating babies. Blueberry flavoured babies. Um...yum?

~Sor

[identity profile] clarinetfear.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 04:52 pm (UTC)(link)
We need to talk about the possibility of you visiting the Philly area!

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 07:08 pm (UTC)(link)
This is an excellent possibility indeed, I'll have you know. Between you (Mawr), my fabulous gal-pal [livejournal.com profile] herbertinc (Swat) and my drop dead gorgeous friend Aaron (Temple), *plus* harassing [livejournal.com profile] muzikmaker21 and [livejournal.com profile] yagathai, I have MORE than enough reason to come visit.

So, uh...when's good? May Day? I hear the Mawr has parties on May Day. Of course, sooner would be fun too.

~Sor

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[identity profile] harena.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 05:16 pm (UTC)(link)
My true reasons of why we need to talk are all clingy & selfish and attention-whorey and i'm too afraid you will think less(er) of me if i say what they are & so i will go with "because if an awesome person like youwho has fiftyeleven other people you'd really rather spend your energy on/with wants to talk to me, then that makes this wee ferret's day life day! ^_^

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 07:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Pfah! Attention-whorey reasons are just as good!

I LIKE YOU HARENA

And therefore I like talking to you too!

~Sor

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[identity profile] marmota.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, not need so much as just want to... sharing your perspective is good for me. Not sure mine is good for you, but that would be something to talk about, wouldn't it?!

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-23 07:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Heh. Other perspectives can be good for me --I am not so presumptuous as to believe I'm always right, even though I generally am.

*ruffles your hair* How's life?

~Sor
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[personal profile] l33tminion 2009-11-23 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
We should talk because I enjoy talking with you, but don't have the chance to do so very frequently.

Also, so I can ask whether it was my tweet that introduced you to big_ben_clock or whether that was just a coincidence.

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-24 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
I don't remember at all where I picked it up anymore. It's lost some of the OMGFUCKYEAHness of it all, but it's still a really damn amusing account.

So, if it was you, thanks!

Andyeah. How're you?

~Sor

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[identity profile] vtladyhawke.livejournal.com 2009-11-24 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
Because, despite being LJfriends for awhile now (and growing up near each other), we haven't really said word one to each other...that must be remedied!! :)

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-24 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
Heh, I agree with this plan. So, uh...how're you lately?

~Sor

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[personal profile] cos 2009-11-24 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
We don't need to talk, but it might be fun anyway.

[identity profile] kdsorceress.livejournal.com 2009-11-27 04:13 pm (UTC)(link)
This is a sensible idea, and I would like to promote it!

~Sor