1) But look at this way.. you have people's numbers what you can punch into the phone & almost dial.. like you w/could if you thought you weren't interrupting/bringing them down, whatever (to which i'd have to say OBJECTION!! (http://objection.mrdictionary.net/go.php?n=2380707) to). Best i can do is hesitate from IMing someone. i couldn't call someone (it took a very long time before i could call W and that was not long before he moved up here after talking with him for a coupla years).. i've been able to call in a panic 'cause i thought something was wrong with *them* but never for my own stuffnthings. *babbles*

2) Heh. We totally complement each other on this'un. i'm terrified to believe that i'm strong enough to cope at all & would love to depend on someone for the rest of my life.. heck, that attitude is what ended me up with 4 kids & no husband ;P

Also: i am very very glad you are in a good enough mood to be playful & silly. ^_^