I know we are not close, and I have no right to proffer advice, and heaven knows I am one fucked-up individual these days, and sometimes I despair that I will *never* get it right.

But...

Please, Kat. Please work on this. Please work really freaking hard on putting yourself first, on learning that you do matter, and that you are worthy of love and kindness and desire and anything and everything you want in life. Never forget, not even for a nanosecond, that you are worthy. That you can be happy.

I am rooting for you.