I am disappointed to admit that I have been that girl before --back in tenth grade, when one of my best guy friends did a surprisingly passable job of dragging himself up for wacky tacky day. I'd like to think that I'd be much better about that sort of thing now.

The distinction betwen something two people share and something one person does to another is somewhat chilling, but I understand, emphaticaly, and I'm sorry it happened.

~Sor