if you want to DANCE all you need is another warm body who knows the patterns. It doesn't matter a whit what genders they are or aren't
You seriously need to learn Modern Western Square Dancing as taught at MIT's Tech Squares. The attitude of "dance wherever there is a space for a dancer" is very prevalent. Which also makes you ready to dance at any number of gay square dancing clubs. (There are two parallel MWSD worlds. In one, people show up as couples, and often dance only with each other. In the other, people show up as singletons, mix & match on a per-'tip' (pair of square dances - one of which is a singing call) basis, and many will dance either the 'boy' or 'girl' part.)
Gender Free Dancing
You seriously need to learn Modern Western Square Dancing as taught at MIT's Tech Squares. The attitude of "dance wherever there is a space for a dancer" is very prevalent. Which also makes you ready to dance at any number of gay square dancing clubs. (There are two parallel MWSD worlds. In one, people show up as couples, and often dance only with each other. In the other, people show up as singletons, mix & match on a per-'tip' (pair of square dances - one of which is a singing call) basis, and many will dance either the 'boy' or 'girl' part.)