Girls kissing girls or girls even holding hands are deemed "okay" by societal standards, but guys doing the same things to other guys - thats where society go apeshit...
When I said I wanted to be married, i had strange looks from people. I asked them "Do you think Im incapable of loving another guy?!" Their "dodge" answer is always this: "Oh its not you... We know you can love another guy, but will that other guy love you back?" That irks me deeply because I have been with the same guy for 9 years and they think he cant love me!
I do carry that "normal" wish once in awhile, but not as much now compared to my younger days. I know in my heart that I am perfectly normal the way I am.
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When I said I wanted to be married, i had strange looks from people. I asked them "Do you think Im incapable of loving another guy?!" Their "dodge" answer is always this: "Oh its not you... We know you can love another guy, but will that other guy love you back?" That irks me deeply because I have been with the same guy for 9 years and they think he cant love me!
I do carry that "normal" wish once in awhile, but not as much now compared to my younger days. I know in my heart that I am perfectly normal the way I am.