I list gender as either "female" when required to pick from the commonly acceptable ones. I am very, very comfortable in my female-sexed body, and identify with it sufficiently that the first fits. However, the OS that I run, the socialization bits, tend to function such that a blind test pegs me a guy 9 times out of 10.

When allowed to define my own gender, I list as "geek", because I think the geekish brain-OS has more in common with other geeks of either sex than with un-geeks of the same sex.

I am attracted largely to male-sexed people, and to a smaller degree to female-sexed ones. I generally say that I'm geek-sexual, in that what I'm attracted to is largely geekiness. The gender identification of people I'm attracted to does not seem to be a determining variable.

I consider myself to be poly. I cannot wrap my brain around the notion of promising to not fall for other people just because I have fallen for one.

I am currently in one long-term serious relationship with a person who is monogamous. The relationship is poly, despite the fact that it's been a while since I've been involved with anyone else to any more than casual degree.

My preferred pronoun-set is female-standard. I am willing to use "zie/zir" if needed for obfuscation purposes.