ext_98126 ([identity profile] macaroniandtuna.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] sorcyress 2009-01-30 02:11 am (UTC)

I did that one, but I'll do it again. Why not.

1) Male. Because that's what I am physically and because I have no interest aside from a passing curiosity (just for a day or something) at being female.
2) In my head at least, "people I'm attracted to" = sex, not gender. For the sake of answering the question, though: Almost exclusively female. Sexually, the rare (very rare, so rare it'll never happen and I'm okay with that) male.

Other thoughts: I can't name anybody specifically (and even if I could I wouldn't, 'cause that'd be mean), but I kind of feel like a lot of people who identify as "gender=other" are doing it out of something resembling Special Snowflake Disorder, ie, as really nothing more than "I'm special and unique!" and as attention-seeking behavior. I think gender, like sex, is a (fairly short) linear spectrum with just two poles, not a multidimensional one.
3) Mono. Poly fascinates me, and perhaps someday, but the way I see it poly is like graduate-level relationship management, and, well, based on past performance, I'm not there. No idea if I'll ever be there, and if not that's okay. (I am of course aware that lots and lots of poly people see "poly" as as much a part of their identity as they do who they're attracted to.)
4) None. The timing is impractical, what with me about to graduate and not be here anymore, if you want a good reason. If not...secret. Ask if you like, but I won't write it in public.
5) He/Him, Manipulator of Time, Space, and Jelly-Filled Donuts.

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